So willie... In short you're saying thank a ref for doing their job, but if the refs aren't then it's ok to do the "dirty work" as a player, since it's the refs or field managers that won't do the job, so you have to?
You know... Instead of taking your money elsewhere.
Frankly it's that do the dirty work mentality that needs to go, and those are the same folks I won't give any respect towards either. It's not your job. And if you're at a place that isn't doing their job (refs/field owners) then don't spend your money there.
There are plenty of tournment series, and I've been in some that are great and I will be back time and time again, and there are some you won't see me back at. That's the way it works.