When making an initial pass, never talk towards the lady. You will look to her tits and she will be offended, or she will be offended that you didnīt look at her tits.
Casually make your way to her side, and comment something happening at a distance. It donīt matter what it is, just something funny happenin, someones dance moves etc. If you got a suitable joke up your sleeve, that works too.
She will be less intimidated because youīre in equal position, not straight in her face.