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Old 01-28-2012, 05:47 PM   #11 (permalink)
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Old 01-28-2012, 06:05 PM   #12 (permalink)
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Haha... well by my opinion if you beat me at a few gunfights or bunkered me a couple of times I'd make a few passes myself

Anyway I've hit on girls down at the field at times, shot down plenty of times too

Just say/explain your there to play with your friends, have fun and enjoy the rest of the weekend and nothing else at the moment.

If it doesn't work you could try saying that your boyfriend just didn't make it out to play, although that could go south and make the guys more interested.

Also as I'm sure you figured out, we don't tend to listen very well, so if after a few times they still don't get the point, it'd probably be best to just say straight out your not interested.

Probably better to pull him off to side and tell him, you don't have to crush him in front of his friends... well unless they deserve it

Try using a decoy,
take at least one of your guy friends, if any, and pass him off as your BF, even better cause you could have them watch your gear so it doesn't get jacked.

In the long run it depends, I guess
you'd just a have to figure out an approach. There's no need to be harsh, you just need to remember your dealing with people, although some more stubborn than others and don't listen very well
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Old 01-28-2012, 06:13 PM   #13 (permalink)
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Old 01-28-2012, 06:17 PM   #14 (permalink)
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Old 01-28-2012, 06:54 PM   #15 (permalink)
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haha, thanks guys!! I reeeally appreciate your responses!!

Any advice on how to deal with those dudes that just stare at you? I call it the "heat-seeking eyes." It's bad enough they won't talk to you but its even worse when they make it obvious by stopping whatever they were doing.... and you can see their eyes just following you as you walk by. If you are one of those types, please stop. It's creepy.
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Old 01-28-2012, 06:58 PM   #16 (permalink)
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haha, thanks guys!! I reeeally appreciate your responses!!

Any advice on how to deal with those dudes that just stare at you? I call it the "heat-seeking eyes." It's bad enough they won't talk to you but its even worse when they make it obvious by stopping whatever they were doing.... and you can see their eyes just following you as you walk by. If you are one of those types, please stop. It's creepy.
i do not do this, but being a 17 year old boy.... it's hard to not do . and you can't really deal with them, you just have to not pay attention to them or walk up to them and tell them to stop.....or during the game...groin-shot

EDIT: i would not recommend the last one....
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Old 01-28-2012, 07:23 PM   #17 (permalink)
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t's hard to not do
I agree! Especially if she's hot, and you know she' way over your league, it's hard not to stare.

But I've seen girls go to big games, wearing short skirts and wearing bikini tops.That's just sends a signal to "look at me me!" So maybe you and your girls could be sending mix signals.

Remember, we're guys, we can easily misinterpret those signals for a green light to either look at you or step up to the plate and try a line or two.
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Old 01-28-2012, 07:28 PM   #18 (permalink)
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Crush them and make them your slave. Much like marrage. Muwhahahahahahahahahah!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Old 01-28-2012, 07:39 PM   #19 (permalink)
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Just don't showet for a couple weeks. Don't brush your teeth either. That should pretty much solve your problem.
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Old 01-28-2012, 07:42 PM   #20 (permalink)
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Are they staring, or actually flirting and talking? If their staring, just give 'em a smile, and go on about your business. If their talking a such, just tell them you're not interested in a relationship. You don't have to be a butt. I actually played today and saw a girl that I thought was pretty cute. We interacted some, but I didn't stare at her all day or do anything weird or stupid. Just be nice, and tell them you're not interested.
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