So what do you do when you find an old GF - Page 2

Dave-D · 03-13-2010, 09:13 AM

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Originally Posted by blackrain

She was a foster child and one day she was just gone. We were still friends and kept in touch while I lived in Calif and going to school. Then one day I get a call from my friend to let me know she was gone and that was it. So there were no hard feelings at all for either of us. Man were were like 17 & 18 yrs then. We are almost 50 yrs now. Grown ADULTS.
Later,
Blackrain

Sounds like you were just friends and nothing more. Am I reading that right?
That changes the situation.
More like looking up an old friend or army buddy. As long as the wife knows and understands and doesn't have a problem.

blackrain · 03-13-2010, 09:14 AM

No worries with the wife. Like I said worst that can happen is she doesn't answer back or she just doesn't remember me lol.
It's all good,my wife is the only babe for me. Countless deployments,long travel trips,excellent mother and holding the house hold together. Why would I want to loose a great Lady like that.

Later,
Blackrain

blackrain · 03-13-2010, 09:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Dave-D

Sounds like you were just friends and nothing more. Am I reading that right?
That changes the situation.
More like looking up an old friend or army buddy. As long as the wife knows and understands and doesn't have a problem.

We went out for a while,but never anything physical. Not like I took her virginity or something like that. Wife knows about her too. We parted as friends and our lives went on. No harm no foul.
Later,
Blackrain

nickakathebest1 · 03-13-2010, 09:21 AM

i say go for it i had something close happen to me were one day contact was just gone when i was 14 from a girl in camp

everex5 · 03-13-2010, 10:37 AM

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Originally Posted by blackrain

on Face book? I just took the chance and there she was. I wondered for yrs what ever happened to her. She just left with no contact.
So I sent her a message. Hopefully she will answer and I can finally find out what happened all those yrs ago.
She still looks good and she seems happy. She was in Houston the whole time. Dammit I thought I had seen her in the mall a few yrs back,but wasn't sure till now.
Later,
Blackrain

wham, bam... thank you ma'am?

alpha434 · 03-13-2010, 11:06 AM

MAke her feel sh!#y and then hit her up for money.

blackrain · 03-13-2010, 07:38 PM

Well I just got a response and it wasn't her. Oh well. Took the chance for the HELL of it. Time to look up more friends. Maybe my old eyes are starting to decieve me. I could have sworn it was her.
Later,
Blackrain

drg · 03-13-2010, 07:49 PM

Depends if you can handle it or not. I am on relatively good terms with most of my exes so they are all friended on facebook. Most have families now so it's cool.

butters89 · 03-13-2010, 08:19 PM

Am I the only one who thought of this song while reading this?

DFSniper · 03-13-2010, 09:00 PM

lol, am i the only one that is still on good terms with their ex? i mean, it was 9th grade, we were both immature, blah blah blah, but the past is the past. odd thing is, shes married now, but we talk about everything (had some interesting sex convos a few nights ago).

edit: i guess its just me and dukie...

03-13-2010, 09:14 AM	#12 (permalink)
blackrain MCB Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: America	No worries with the wife. Like I said worst that can happen is she doesn't answer back or she just doesn't remember me lol. It's all good,my wife is the only babe for me. Countless deployments,long travel trips,excellent mother and holding the house hold together. Why would I want to loose a great Lady like that. Later, Blackrain __________________ Visit my Sponsor page: http://www.mcarterbrown.com/forums/t...y-sponsor.html "When all else fails, pull the pin and see what happens next" Follow Team Blackrain on Face Book: http://www.facebook.com/#!/profile.p...00000734844527 Best Auto cocker info ever Just like to make crazy stuff for paintball? Click here My feedback How Paintballs are made

03-13-2010, 11:06 AM	#16 (permalink)
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03-13-2010, 07:38 PM	#17 (permalink)
blackrain MCB Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: America	Well I just got a response and it wasn't her. Oh well. Took the chance for the HELL of it. Time to look up more friends. Maybe my old eyes are starting to decieve me. I could have sworn it was her. Later, Blackrain __________________ Visit my Sponsor page: http://www.mcarterbrown.com/forums/t...y-sponsor.html "When all else fails, pull the pin and see what happens next" Follow Team Blackrain on Face Book: http://www.facebook.com/#!/profile.p...00000734844527 Best Auto cocker info ever Just like to make crazy stuff for paintball? Click here My feedback How Paintballs are made Last edited by blackrain; 03-13-2010 at 07:43 PM.

03-13-2010, 07:49 PM	#18 (permalink)
drg Banned Join Date: Mar 2007	Depends if you can handle it or not. I am on relatively good terms with most of my exes so they are all friended on facebook. Most have families now so it's cool.