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Old 01-08-2013, 12:47 PM   #1 (permalink)
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I need help with something that involves sleep and dreama

Alright, it's not for me.

My Girlfriend has had alot of bad dreams since we've met, all of these include us being attacked and killed and such, for example, her most recent one was about us being at one of our houses and these men broke in and attacked us and I was shot and I killed all of them but one, and she attackd him and hurt him an I bled to death and stuff like that. Most if not all of them are about killing and death and us being hunted down and myrdered.

So with that being said, she has a really bad eating and sleeping schedule, she reads stuff about zombies and vampires and supernatural creatures and so on.

What is wrong? I know we're all different but I know some things can be done to help this.
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Old 01-08-2013, 01:54 PM   #2 (permalink)
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She's got serious paranoia that she should probably speak to a psychiatrist about. No meds needed, talking is the best form of therapy.
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also the diet can effect the way you dream
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Old 01-08-2013, 04:59 PM   #6 (permalink)
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She's got serious paranoia that she should probably speak to a psychiatrist about. No meds needed, talking is the best form of therapy.
uh what? how does having scary dreams equate to serious paranoia? I don't think you know how serious paranoia can be... it's serious when it seriously messes up your daily life and interferes with normal thinking and enjoyment of life. bad dreams like this is probably a result of a combination of a mildly paranoid disposition (maybe, but maybe not), disrupted diet and sleep schedule, some other stress factors in the daily routine, and reading too much scary fiction including the newspapers. Also, the neighbourhood might not be so nice, or other environmental concerns which are affecting the subconscious senses of comfort and safety.

want to help her? ask her how she feels about all of these things, and prioritize which ones stand out as the strongest factors, and then work to correct them. or, take it to a professional who can council you both on the matter.

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I think certain "bad" dreams are the product of stress, anxiety, or disposition rather than paranoia. Dreams are a summary of a day's thoughts, emotions, senses, etc, all blended together. The fiction your girlfriend reads plays a part in how her dreams pan out. People tend to put more meaning and emphasis on their dreams than what's really there. I think the best remedy for unwanted dreams is to realize they don't mean anything and just be thankful you have the capacity to dream. If the dreams are negatively affecting her during the day then she needs to talk it out.
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Alright, it's not for me.

My Girlfriend has had alot of bad dreams since we've met, all of these include us being attacked and killed and such, for example, her most recent one was about us being at one of our houses and these men broke in and attacked us and I was shot and I killed all of them but one, and she attackd him and hurt him an I bled to death and stuff like that. Most if not all of them are about killing and death and us being hunted down and myrdered.

So with that being said, she has a really bad eating and sleeping schedule, she reads stuff about zombies and vampires and supernatural creatures and so on.

What is wrong? I know we're all different but I know some things can be done to help this.
it's time for an ADVENTURE

go on a camping trip or even a roller coaster ride. something away from everyday life.

it's all fun and games until she dreams about you cheating and then gets mad at you irl for it.
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it's time for an ADVENTURE

go on a camping trip or even a roller coaster ride. something away from everyday life.

it's all fun and games until she dreams about you cheating and then gets mad at you irl for it.
and pick lots of mushrooms to eat. guaranteed adventure success.
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Old 01-09-2013, 12:48 AM   #10 (permalink)
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you should ask her to go see a doctor. since her eating habits and sleeping schedule are cause her problems. most people do not know that eating habits could lead to sleep issue or here sleep issue are cause her to eat at weird times.
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