girl trouble

dauntless15 · 06-30-2009, 09:34 PM

hey guys . i recently went on a class and kinda fell in love with this one girl . me and her agree on all subjects that we talked about , music , how to raise children , we are both hard core christians , and every other thing imaginable . only problem is she is seeing someone . who is also pretty kool . i dont know him to well but he is another baller . im not gonna name names cuz who knows . he may be on this site lol . but anyway she is amzingly beautiful and smart and above all she loves jesus . now , i would love to "by accident " cut the guys breaks and stuff and stuff but thats not gonna happen . how do i express my feelings without sacrificeing the relationship . we are now like relaly good friends me and her .

please no stupid jokes or comments .

Jon. · 06-30-2009, 09:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dauntless15

please no stupid jokes or comments .

Gonna be a short thread then.

HyePower · 06-30-2009, 09:53 PM

This is funny

chrislognshot · 06-30-2009, 09:54 PM

i say site back and wait. who know if something will fall your way. but also got this too. she might think your just friends or wants to use to get other one jealous. your going to have to play cards as dealt

Butch · 06-30-2009, 09:57 PM

Whats the rough ages of all involved? If under say 25, I would say your fine. Most younger couples don't last. Yes that is not a guarantee, but does seem to be how things go overall.

Listessa · 06-30-2009, 09:58 PM

If it's meant to be, then it will happen. Let the two of them be, and if they break up in the future- make your move. If not, don't worry. You are still young and there are plenty of women out there. Honestly it isn't worth bringing up your feelings for her at this point. It could damage your friendship with her.

The worst thing you can do is try and mess with their relationship. Sabotage could cause her to loose a lot of respect for you.

Match · 06-30-2009, 09:59 PM

I have to admit I never read a post like this, but I will be serious with my response.

I hate to say this: bummer. Nothing you can do unless her or the other guy calls it off. Secondly, if their relationship does end, whose to say shes gonna want to start another one right away - especially with you. Hang out with her and be her FRIEND; nothing more. Don't set yourself up with false feelings and DO NOT read into anything too deeply. Personally, I wouldn't go off and just start expressing feelings. How long have you two known each other? You two get along because you agree on a lot of subjects and most importantly religion/faith. Keep it that way and let things fall in line naturally. You never know, that guy and her might run into relationship problems and she might start asking you for advice. PM me if you need to.

Hammy of Socal · 06-30-2009, 09:59 PM

I am sorry.
But asking for dating advice on MCB? Hope to god MAr doesn't get on here.....

Secondly and more on topic, Just tell her exactly how you feel dude. No good deed goes unpunished, and if you really like the girl, remember god rewards the good.

Hope this helped!

Lol Match....^^
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sloonan · 06-30-2009, 10:02 PM

Capital letters in the beginning of your sentences is a good start.

Pump_Action_Prophet · 06-30-2009, 10:04 PM

Tell her how you feel.
If you two hang out often; probably wait till it's just the both of you and no-one's gonna come in and start chatting with either of you and interrupt the situation and just let her how you feel about her.
There could be a good chance that "pretty kool" boyfriend is not what she wants in a relationship. Is he a jesus freak too? If not...Good chance he's looking for a "test drive" before the "purchase" --> she know's this and is not too pleased with that.
You could have the upper hand in compatability with said lady friend and she may infact know this/could be shy and not feel comfortable herself in mentioning it.
*Sorry if that one bit offends anyone; You know which bit...

-Tip of the day.
If you do decide to tell her how you feel about her...make sure you've eaten well and are properly hydrated and all that healthy eating crap...Last time I told a girl (with a boyfriend) how I felt about her I damn near blacked out...

ps...she was totally

and things worked out...for a while...untill the next guy came along and... "told her how he felt about her".

06-30-2009, 09:34 PM	#1 (permalink)
dauntless15 MCB Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: wyckoff nj	girl trouble hey guys . i recently went on a class and kinda fell in love with this one girl . me and her agree on all subjects that we talked about , music , how to raise children , we are both hard core christians , and every other thing imaginable . only problem is she is seeing someone . who is also pretty kool . i dont know him to well but he is another baller . im not gonna name names cuz who knows . he may be on this site lol . but anyway she is amzingly beautiful and smart and above all she loves jesus . now , i would love to "by accident " cut the guys breaks and stuff and stuff but thats not gonna happen . how do i express my feelings without sacrificeing the relationship . we are now like relaly good friends me and her . please no stupid jokes or comments .

06-30-2009, 09:53 PM	#3 (permalink)
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06-30-2009, 09:57 PM	#5 (permalink)
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06-30-2009, 09:58 PM	#6 (permalink)
Listessa Lost the Daylight Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Fairbanks, AK	If it's meant to be, then it will happen. Let the two of them be, and if they break up in the future- make your move. If not, don't worry. You are still young and there are plenty of women out there. Honestly it isn't worth bringing up your feelings for her at this point. It could damage your friendship with her. The worst thing you can do is try and mess with their relationship. Sabotage could cause her to loose a lot of respect for you. __________________ The correct question is, "Why don't I need another gun?" How strange to see a lagomorph of such bravery. Loyal Order of the Water Buffalo- Don't Ask Us- We Will Tell! Facilis est Descensus Averni. <--Click to descend to my feedback. NO'MAAM #2"National Organization Members Against AGG Metrosexuals" Rouge Cell #3

06-30-2009, 09:59 PM	#7 (permalink)
Match MCB Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: St. Louis	I have to admit I never read a post like this, but I will be serious with my response. I hate to say this: bummer. Nothing you can do unless her or the other guy calls it off. Secondly, if their relationship does end, whose to say shes gonna want to start another one right away - especially with you. Hang out with her and be her FRIEND; nothing more. Don't set yourself up with false feelings and DO NOT read into anything too deeply. Personally, I wouldn't go off and just start expressing feelings. How long have you two known each other? You two get along because you agree on a lot of subjects and most importantly religion/faith. Keep it that way and let things fall in line naturally. You never know, that guy and her might run into relationship problems and she might start asking you for advice. PM me if you need to. __________________ http://www.mcarterbrown.com/forums/f...-feedback.html Geisterjager veteran OK D-Day. Making Allied players sorry for choosing blue is our specialty.

06-30-2009, 09:54 PM	#4 (permalink)
chrislognshot Post Whore Join Date: Jul 2006	i say site back and wait. who know if something will fall your way. but also got this too. she might think your just friends or wants to use to get other one jealous. your going to have to play cards as dealt

06-30-2009, 09:59 PM	#8 (permalink)
Hammy of Socal Banned Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: San Diego, CA	I am sorry. But asking for dating advice on MCB? Hope to god MAr doesn't get on here..... Secondly and more on topic, Just tell her exactly how you feel dude. No good deed goes unpunished, and if you really like the girl, remember god rewards the good. Hope this helped! Lol Match....^^ Good Name/Thread Comparison Last edited by Hammy of Socal; 06-30-2009 at 10:06 PM.

06-30-2009, 10:02 PM	#9 (permalink)
sloonan MCB Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: ?	Capital letters in the beginning of your sentences is a good start. __________________ I don't believe in much but I do believe in duct tape.

06-30-2009, 10:04 PM	#10 (permalink)
Pump_Action_Prophet MCB Member Join Date: May 2009	Tell her how you feel. If you two hang out often; probably wait till it's just the both of you and no-one's gonna come in and start chatting with either of you and interrupt the situation and just let her how you feel about her. There could be a good chance that "pretty kool" boyfriend is not what she wants in a relationship. Is he a jesus freak too? If not...Good chance he's looking for a "test drive" before the "purchase" --> she know's this and is not too pleased with that. You could have the upper hand in compatability with said lady friend and she may infact know this/could be shy and not feel comfortable herself in mentioning it. *Sorry if that one bit offends anyone; You know which bit... -Tip of the day. If you do decide to tell her how you feel about her...make sure you've eaten well and are properly hydrated and all that healthy eating crap...Last time I told a girl (with a boyfriend) how I felt about her I damn near blacked out... ps...she was totally and things worked out...for a while...untill the next guy came along and... "told her how he felt about her".