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I mean honestly society is teaching this generation, my pathetic generation, to shunt the blame onto others instead of looking at themselves in the mirror and dealing with their personal demons and emottional issues. I was that fat kid that always got picked on in elementary, I was the kid who was always alone, a nerd, an outcast, the guy in the corner with his headphones blaring all day to block out the world so I didn't have to feel bad. I thought it was my fault my parents got a divorce when I was 11, I always blamed others for my problems at school. And you know what, I still feel like an outcast some days, the difference between me and those people who go off and do these horrible, dispicable, disgusting things, is knowning why I am to blame and no one else is. I use to think it was my fault somehow when my parents got divorced, but it isn't I know that now because I can see the whole picture. But at the time there was no way I could have, simply because my parents only use to fight around me. We all have things to deal with in our lives, and I think that the way our scociety is set up right now is honestly laughable. We blame everyone but the real cause of our problems, ourselves, no I didn't say society made me do anything. If I make a bad chose or screw some thing up, that was my mistake, I'll learn from it, thats what your supposed to do as a person. But when a kid commits a crime and gets a few hours commnity service they don't learn anything other then "hey if this is all I get what do I care." Then on the other end of the spectrum is administrations over reacting and completly trying to justify their actions. This might be an interesting read for you guys, it was in the responces of the first article. AR15.COM :: Forums :: My son was suspended three days for having a Glock pen... For anyone who thinks that those of us who are younger won't see your perspectives we do, we just may not have full comprehension of them at this point in our lives. I'm 18, working 36 hours a week+over time, on top of going to college. Yet I still find time for working on my cars, my motorcycle, and paintballing with some good friends on my rare days off on weekends. My point being, there is always be understanding with others as long as we take the time to inform ourselves correctly and objectively. But that seems to be a dying art in our current way of life, a self induced blissfull suburban ignorance. | |||||
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| Post Whore Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Northwestern Pennsylvania | Scorpius: Excellent post and welcome to MCB! The only thing that I can't agree with is this being a gun control issue. The gun haters try to spin it into that to support their case but when it comes to school violence it simply muddies the waters and takes attention away from the real issue which is protecting kids at school from other kids and adults that mean them harm. I do think that the people who allow kids easy access to guns need to be punished. Heck, a woman near me bought her son a bunch of guns that he ultimately planned on using in school shooting. They're gonna put her in jail and that's where she needs to be. Obviously if a 16 year-old decides to break into his dad's gun safe while dad is at work and uses heavy tools to do so, the father can't really be held accountable because the kid would have got the guns no matter what. But a parent who leaves unsecured firearms around the house that wind up going to school needs to be punished for their irresponsibility.
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I agree but only to a degree, I was that kid that was picked on , beat up, rediculed whatever you want to call it, in all my years of school up till this year at college I have seen kids hurt, assaulted, and verbally abused by their piers regardless of rule changes, or new policies put in place to stop it. In fact from being on the other end of it myself it seemed to make them more zelous in their pursuit of tormenting and harming others if only to distract themselves from thier own problems. Through the first two years of highschool for me I saw the punishment for fighting go from a one day suspention to a two week suspention with madatory written apology. Yet the change had no effect, no real meaning until I started to fight myself, I was of course let off because I never started anything but I will finish it now. I started lifting weights running, doing anything I could to make it known I was stronger, and if they started anything they knew they wouldn't be the one standing after. It has to fall on the individual parents to get their kids ready for what ever life may through at them be it horrid, obscene, disgusting, dispicable things or just plainly dealing with a bully at school. It also falls onto the parents to teach their children proper gun safety, and not to make it a taboo or rebelious thing. I have been shooting firearms for six almost seven years at this point in my life(.22 Cooey Winchester, and my old Remington .410 auto, I still have those things in the safe Honestly people blame their parents divorces for their problems or they say they didn't get enough attention as a kid, its not societies fault, its not their parents fault, its not the fault of their second grade teacher who pronounced their name wrong. Its souley their own, and I think that the willingness to shove the blame onto other or medicate every single problem they have with pharmasuticle(sp?) drugs, only fuels the neglegence that is growing in our scociety like a diesease. Also anyone who leaves firearms just lying around their home is criminally neglegent and should not be allowed to own, operate, or be in posesion of them at all, at least in my opinion. Quote:
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| Mod-O-Rator Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Finleyville, PA | Once upon a time, a fight like that would break out, kids would get dragged to the gym, put on the boxing gloves, and say if youer going to do it, do it right. Maybe it was before my time, and yours, but kids, expecially boys, need an outlet for aggrivation and frustration, and lets not forget hormones. Its just the modern PC school has taken away most of those healthy outlets and left the kids to find their own outlet, which usually isnt all that great. then add the frustration a kids gets from not learning, but knowing that they are smarter than it seems to be, and you get all kinds of trouble. (that likens back to the fact that we no longer teach phonics in schools, which is leading us to a society of slaves who cant read, as opposed to free men who can read and learn on their own. hey, it worked on all those Africans back in the 1700's, why not try it again, eh?)
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| MCB Member Join Date: Nov 2006 | I think we are talking about turning schools into a super max prison here? I mean I personally am sick of the crap for air travel and just won't travel by plane. What happened to innocent until PROVEN guilty. I can't get on a plane with my pocket knife, or leatherman, or a freaking nail file, what me and the boys from row 11 are making a shive and gonna tunnel our way off this plane. Look at the requirements for air travel now, and compare it to a prisoner's requirements, looks pretty damned similar to me, and are not schools now heading down that path?? Call me an alarmist but this all seems like too much power in the hands of the Govn' to me. And I am concerned what happens in the USA cause a lot of it winds up being followed up here in Canada. Just say no to having to show your papers ever block to the Nazis. Cause I think we are not too far away from that (RIF chip anyone).
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| Newbie Join Date: Jan 2008 | Hey all, I have to agree with the original post. I was raised in a westernish East indian family. I got my *** whipped when ever I was a fool and trust me my butt became red instead of brown. I learn to respect my elders, majority of my teachers and most of all my family. I will admit my mom went over board some times but the alternative would be to little. At the rate I was going in life when I was a youth I would be in jail for drugs or possibly murder. I have the *** whoopin' to thank for keeping me somewhat one the tracks even when I swear I was way off. Kids today call social services for ever little thing. They know they are minors and can get past the law for most crimes and that the rebel is cool. Well unfortunately for all those misguided rebelious youths, every one else is rebelling the same way so it aint rebelling anymore its being part of the heard. They are so blinded by the fact that its cool to be as far away from the quote unquote "regular person" that they dont find themselves but they completely lose themselves. They become confused cowards who don't understand respect and compassion for a fellow human being and its affecting North American as a whole. Just so you know My crazy insane behaviour actually was chilled out by my folks through discipline and now I hold a great Job have great friends and am respected through out my community. All because of same *** whoopin'. Spank your kids but please dont beat them for that does the opposite. Faro aka Dirty Bangoli (from Canada hence the different spelling) P.S. My super cane' (tricked out Hurricane) is coming all... pics when its done this summer Last edited by faro; 03-17-2008 at 07:05 PM.. |
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| Newbie Join Date: Jul 2007 | Forgot to mention that I also am Canadian, my dad would kick my *** if I mouthed off or misbehaved a few years ago but he took me out biking, running, and generally teaching me healthy ways to vent my pent up aggression. I intend to get my kids into organized sports and teach them to do things like weight lifting(no it doesn't stunt your growth, I'm 6'2" and 250lbs so I'm obviously fine) when the time come in my life where I actually have kids. Personally I enjoy taking apart broken paintball guns and repairing them as well as weight lifting to relax, because afterwards I know I have accomplished some thing. |
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| MCB Member Join Date: Oct 2007 | I think it boils down to needing some form of worthwhile endeavor to pursue. I tinker, I woodwork, I draw, and I do athletic stuff- hiking, running, lifting, paintball, wrestling, submission grappling, frisbee. If it weren't for these, I would have no way to keep sane, trust me. There's just too much pressure on kids these days. Everyone needs a 4.0 and a list of extracurriculars a mile long to get a scholarship, and without a scholarship they need a full time job, and to have a job you need a car, and to afford the car AND college you need to be away 20 hours a day. Toss this together with a college workload previously unheard of (I'm at GT, and my dad says it looks like I'm working twice as hard as he did at MIT, '82 IIRC). All of a sudden 14-22 year olds have full blown adult lives, practically, with schedules, budgets and checkbooks, stress and insomnia, and pretty serious consequences for screwing it up. Toss in hormones, and a lack of experience/ maturity. Assuming most of you have full time jobs, imagine if you a) were getting minimum wage, b) had 40 hours of classes to take each week, c) had obligations outside of those, d) had to deal with typical inane teenage banter, and then on top of this all had your minds clouded by hormones, girlfriends, etc. Hard to imagine NOT lashing out somehow. I wrestled to deal with it all. I had to step it up to 2 seasons of wrestling, plus a summer of grappling to deal, and would play paintball in the "open" season. I'd sometimes spend a day in the workshop, eating peanut butter sandwiches and using a grinder to turn 6061 billet into something interesting. I'd draw for hours, and leave my ipod in my ears for days straight sometimes, because sometimes, I just needed to get away from it all. If I didn't learn how to enjoy a few constructive outlets, to focus my entire mind on, to just shut out all the stress, I would take a more direct route. I'd cuss out my girlfriend, berate my teachers (well, I did to a few of em... they deserved it though), and probably fight every kid who looked at me funny. But the ability to focus on a chunk of metal or to body-drop an opponent in wrestling, that was "constructive" yet an excellent vent. I mean, wrestling... where else can you bounce someones head off the floor, then choke him out, and the authority figures say, "Nice job, good match"? It's endeavors like this that the "crazies" have missed out on.
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| Newbie Join Date: Jan 2008 | Well said! Great point to the last posts, I never even touched that! Hobbies, sports and focusing on stimulating ones life positively helps keep our youth on track. I grew up with out many hobbies for I was stick thin and honestly my self confidence was nil... again the punishment did do a lot to steer me right but rock climbing at 19 really helped too! With that I got into jogging and so on... I just hope that North Americans realize that we are not evolving by being completely against spanking. Like I stated before spanking is fine but beating is not... some can say its up for interpretation but really spanking is minor physical pain with a strong psychological stimulus in attempt to make your child understand between right and wrong. Beating is a frustrated parent who lacks the patience, self awareness to spend time and energy guiding a child. Faro aka Dirty Bangoli P.S. Have a wonderful Long weekend all... "May your shots land on target and the condom never break!" now that is up for interpretation ![]() |
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